March 16, 1952 – August 31, 2024
It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of our beloved matriarch, Deborah (“Debbie”) Frances Ricci on August 31, 2024 at the age of 72 at Southlake Regional Health Centre with her husband by her side.
Debbie is survived by her loving husband Joseph (“Joe”) of 48 years, her daughter Ashlee, her son Taylor (Bryer) and her granddaughters Elliot & Lily. She will be deeply missed by her brother David (Janet), her sister’s in-laws Toni (Frank), Rita, Nancy (Nick) and many nieces and nephews. Also, her favourite “grand pets” Monty, Stuart, Olive and Olsen.
Debbie was born in Toronto on March 16, 1952 to James Archibald (“Archie”) and Lillian Chisholm (Stearne). She was raised in the loving home that her grandfather built in the Borough of York. At an early age, Debbie consolidated her piano playing skills to a high level and achieved her Grade 8 piano certificate and then never played again.
Attended grade school at Fairbank Public School and high school at Vaughan Road Collegiate where she graduated with Honours and as an Ontario Scholar scoring the second highest marks, in the high nineties, in the three maths! Debbie was also a member of the synchronized swim team with her best friend Sharon Sample while achieving this high academic achievement.
Off to the University of Toronto where, once again, she graduated with Honours Bachelor of Science, Physiotherapy. She started her working career at Queensway General Hospital but quickly moved to the Homecare Program of Metro Toronto where she catered to many patients in their homes after various surgeries. Debbie was a vibrant outgoing individual who loved meeting new people regardless of race, religion or colour. She treated everyone as individuals and could not tolerate racism or bigotry. She would always say “we all came from somewhere “so this career as a Homecare Therapist was right up her alley.
Debbie met Joe at house party with friends at the age of 14. Their connection was instantaneous. They went steady for 9 years, through different high schools and universities and were married a year after they both graduated on August 7, 1976.
Moved to Bolton Ontario in 1978 where they bought their first starter house and after many renovations remained there to this day. Debbie dedicated her life to family and made their house into a loving home with days filled with laughter, love, respect and many fond memories. Her heart was filled with the accompaniment of her beloved dog, Murphy.
Debbie and Joe were blessed with two loving, caring and generous children, Ashlee in 1980 and Taylor in 1983. Taylor married Bryer in 2015 and two wonderful granddaughters Elliot and Lily arrived in 2017 and 2021 respectively.
Debbie and Joe were fortunate enough to travel to the East and West coast of Canada, Montreal regularly, Barbados, Dominican Republic, London, France (Paris & Avignon & Nice), Switzerland and Italy. Debbie was infatuated with Italy and they traveled there every year since 2011 with the exception of the two covid years. They traveled through the 20 regions of Italy for 6 to 7 weeks at a time and were in love with Florence. They had plans for longer term stays in Florence when her sickness occurred.
Debbie was a voracious reader and could consume a book in days, an exceptional gourmet cook and exceptional hostess. Most of all Debbie was a brilliant, loving, caring, dedicated wife and mother and was constantly smiling and looking on the positive side of life. She was an accomplished and committed swimmer with the Vaughan Aquatic Masters Club and afterward continued to swim 2km a day well into her 70s. A testament to her life long commitment to an active lifestyle. That bright smile and witty sense of humour will be dearly missed by all who new her. Especially her 8-life long girlfriends from elementary school who got together for a weekend every September for the sacred ‘girls’ weekend.’
Debbie’s life was a testament to love, kindness and unwavering support. She was the heartbeat of our family, full of grace and hope and we are all better people for having her in our lives.
The family would like to thank all the Doctors and nurses at the Southlake Regional Health Centre, especially Dr. Amin and Dr. Shaqil Kassam and Dr. Tatiana Conrad of the Stronach Cancer Centre for their guidance and support through this very difficult process.
The family will receive their family and friends at the Egan Funeral Home, 203 Queen Street South (Hwy 50), Bolton (905-857-2213) on Thursday afternoon 1 to 4 and evening 6 to 8 o’clock. Memorial service will be held in the chapel on Friday morning, September 6 at 11 o’clock. Interment of cremated remains will take place at a later date.
Debbie loved flowers and she also loved pets so a donation or flowers would be gratefully appreciated. Donations to the Cancer Society would also be appropriate.
Condolences for the family may be offered at www.EganFuneralHome.com
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Condolence Messages
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Hana Barakat
I did not meet Debbie but from the sounds of it she was an incredible woman and will be dearly missed by so many. My deepest condolences to her loved ones. May she rest in eternal peace. Sending so much love and positive energy during this difficult time.
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Dr. Yehiel and Maria Meghory
To the Ricci families,
Our sincerest sympathies on Debbie’s recent passing. She was definitely a “bright light”. May your sweet memories of her, bring you comfort during this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Dr. Yehiel and Maria Meghory -
Vincent Ricci
Diane and Jim Ricci
We are very saddened to hear about Debbie’s Passing, We remember her as a wonderful family person. the perfect partner for Joe. We will always cherish her memory. -
Irmgard Jankowski
I am so sorry, to hear about your wife’s and mother’s passing. I still hoped, I would meet her again at the swimmingpool. She was such a nice and elegant lady.
My condolene to the whole family
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Garry fitzell
Joe my old friend and old neighbour I truely so so very sorry for your loss If you can take anything away from this so sad time .Know this my friend you will meet again in afar better place where thereis no pain or sorrow only the love of the ones that went on before . Trust in the LORD and his love for us all .When he calls us home HE knows why . I will always remember you two being so so in love Joe you had agood one there Please remember the good times They will help By my friend
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Robert & Linda Thomson
Dear Joe, Ashlee & Taylor
Please except our deepest condolences on the passing of Debbie. We are still in shock after receiving a call from David. Debbie will be sadly missed as she was definitely a special person. The Ricci & Chisholm families are in our thoughts & prayers during this difficult time.With Love
Rob & Linda
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Robert & Linda Thomson
Dear Joe, Ashlee & Taylor
Please except our deepest condolences on the passing of Debbie. We are still in shock after receiving a call from David. Debbie will be sadly missed as she was definitely a special person. The Ricci & Chisholm families are in our thoughts & prayers during this difficult time.With Love
Rob & Linda
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Glenn Placido
Joe, and the Ricci family, please accept our sincere condolences in the passing of Debbie.
Debbie was an accomplished wife, mother and grandmother. Debbie was a business professional who brought care and consideration to her clients. May the memories of all of the good times be remembered for all who remain.
Arlene and Glenn Placido
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Christine Ricci
Dear Joe,
I was so sad to hear of Debbie’s passing. The tribute written about her gave me a history about the teenage girl that captivated me as a little girl. I estimate, I was about 11 years old when I first met Debbie at Zia and Zio’s home by Fairbanks Park. I have a clear picture of her walking away from the house, down their front path – blonde hair swinging across her shoulders. You were both heading back to university. (I’m thinking it was Thanksgiving weekend) To me she was exotic.
Peace be with you and your family. -
Arlene Edwards
My love and sincere heartfelt condolences to Joe who has lost his life long partner, best friend and wife, Ashlee, Taylor, Bryer, Elliot and Lily who have lost their beautiful wonderful Mom and Gramma, and to Dave who has lost his dear sister. Deb was such a driving force in your lives, her love, humour and laughter will echo in your hearts forever, as it will in mine my dear friend. Nothing is lost, only changed, love you, friends forever, until we meet again ❤️
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Pietro Oliva
Joe & Family
Our thoughts are with you All
We know great memories with Debbie will help you through this most difficult time.
Sorry we cannot be there to offer our condolences in person.
Thinking of you, Pietro & Giulia Oliva -
Angela Rickett
Joe, Ashlee & Taylor, my sincere condolences to you all. It was such a shock to hear this sad news. Angela